A Death Coach - sometimes called an End-of-Life Guide, Death Doula, or Death Midwife - is a non-medical professional who supports people and families as they approach the end of life. My role is to help you prepare, navigate difficult decisions, and feel less alone during what can be an overwhelming time. I offer guidance, education, and compassionate presence, working alongside medical, legal, and funeral professionals while focusing on your values and wishes.
Thinking about death can feel overwhelming, and often families don't know where to start. I can help you clarify your wishes, prepare important documents, have meaningful conversations with loved ones, and understand what happens after a death. My support is meant to reduce fear and uncertainty, and to create a sense of calm and readiness.
Hospice and palliative care are medical services provided by doctors, nurses, and healthcare teams. A Death Coach is not a medical role. Instead, I complement those services by focusing on the emotional, practical, and educational side of planning. I can spend more time with you, provide resources, and help you communicate more effectively with healthcare and funeral professionals.
No. While I bring compassion and a supportive presence, I am not a therapist. My role is to provide education, guidance, and coordination. If you need clinical mental health support, I can guide you to the appropriate resources.
Nope! I support people at all stages: those who want to plan in advance, those who are facing a serious illness, and families who are coping after a death. You don't have to be near the end of life to benefit from talking through plans and possibilities.
Yes, absolutely! These conversations often touch everyone in a family. You are welcome to bring loved ones, whether that's a spouse, children, siblings, or close friends. Including others can ease the burden of carrying these decisions alone and helps ensure everyone feels heard and supported.
No. My work is not tied to any one faith or belief system. I respect that everyone approaches death differently - through religion, spirituality, culture, or personal philosophy. My role is to support your values and wishes, not impose my own.
Every person and every family carriies unique traditions and beliefs around death. I listen first. I encourage you to share what is meaningful to you - whether that's rituals, language, or family practices - and I adjust my support accordingly. My goal is to help you feel seen, respected, and cared for in ways that align with who you are.
Our time together is guided by your needs. I will listen to what brought you here - whether it's advance care planning, navigating a difficult conversation, or needing support after a death. From there, I'll share options, resources, and next steps at a pace that feels comfortable. Each meeting is a safe, compassionate space where you can ask questions, explore possibilities, and feel supported without judgment.
Both. I can meet you virtually (by phone or video) anywhere in Ontario, and in person when possible within the Ottawa area. You are welcome to choose the format that feels most accessible and comfortable for you.
Not at this time, no. I provide clear pricing and invoices so you know exactly what to expect.